10/13/09

Expeppermint Experiment

The reason i picked this title is because we are bringing back the Ex factor with a refreshing peppermint twist! by Ex factor i mean your last ex bf or any man that journeyed through your life and after countless screwing up and endless chances you gave him, you decided to draw an imaginary big bold red X on him that starts from the tip of his head down to his feet
You finally stood up for yourself and decided to get over him and enjoy the other aspects of life. You go shopping, go out with your friends, focus on your job or whatever you do in life until you meet your biggest challenge.. Boredom. Let's admit it, he used to call you early in the morning, text message you all day, maybe chat on MSN while you are at work, meet up for coffee later in the evening to argue about what he did or about that top of yours that revealed a glimpse of your flesh... whatever it was, it used to keep you busy.
Now you have tons of free time and a quiet mobile phone that you check every two seconds to make sure its still alive. Now you try to fight the urge to contact him,so you decided to keep yourself busy which means frequent naps, searching for a new lover either by going back in memory and contacting guys that have previously tried to hit on you but you were blindly in love and kept them in the 'friends' zone, or by clinging to the first new guy that approaches you. If you managed to grab a new a guy into your vacant lover spot, It won't
be long until you are going to feel miserable again realizing that he isn't your type and you just invited him into your life simply because you were bored and you were longing for attention.
Now your second challenge comes up.. you get a text message from your X at 2:30 am on a Friday telling you that he missed you so much and he wish he could invent a time machine that would take him back in time in order to fix what happened between you two. You are pretty sure he is wasted and probably just dropped his new fling home after a wild night, but your heart still tingles and you decide to wake up all your friends that night telling them about the message you got from him and forwarding it to them as if you don't believe it yourself! you start surveying whether you should reply to him or not and if the answer is yes what should you say. All your friends advised you not to reply and you promised them you won't.. but then, and after an hour of meditating on it you decided to send him a mean message expressing how he broke your heart and the pain he caused you, with a few curses here and there, and of course you couldn't sleep that night.
The next day he called you, and out of curiosity, you pick up with a cold tone of voice and a formal greeting.. you started talking and bringing back the past when he asked if you could meet over coffee and discuss what happened between you. I guess you already know where that led them.. they got back together.
Now you try your best to shine his image in front of your friends after the explosions you created to his reputation and after you revealed his darkest secrets that you promised not to tell to a soul. You start new and close the previous page until the third challenge hits you.. Doubt.
You start doubting everything he says, you get a feeling that he might be still seeing that Blondy that he used to talk to after you broke up the first time.. you doubt whether his mobile battery really died or he went out with someone. Your doubts will start to eat you alive ... until you meet Joy!

LIVE OUT LOUD.. 'LOL'

So i was born the minute Tamara created my Live email, it seemed difficult at first being born in this World very Wide Web. I felt more secure moving around with my Live ID you know, just incase i get stopped by any website operator requiring me to register using my ID.
My first destination was a hip trendy networking website called Facebook, i thought its a great idea getting involved in a website that involves faces and books!! so a beautiful face was created for me and the first page of my book was written.
Now that i have the face and couple of pages of a book that includes my personal info, it was time to fit in with the other faces on Facebook. I started adding potential friends based on their face and the first couple of words written in their book, i also started getting so many friends requests on a daily basis until the number of friends on my list reached 120. I also added three photo albums of me in different occasions that i haven't personally been in since i cant get out of the web, but luckily, Tamara managed to fit me in them. There are also many cool applications I added such as "Date of the day" which gives me the chance to date a different celebrity each day!
Gladly i got the chance to get to know the people on my friend's list, they were very nice and gave me great compliments. I communicate with them on a regular basis, some of them i added
on MSN to further enhance the relashionship and get to know each other better.
So now and after 14 Micsrosoft calendar days i became officially one of them... 'an active Facebooker' !