10/15/09

You think LaLa land men are unfaithful?? Wait until you meet this GaGa land man !

It is Joy's second victim.. a lovely Arab lady that lives in Lady GaGa's country.  The victim (which I am going to refer to as 'M' ) is 27 years old, beautiful, smart, intellectual, independent, and has a heart of an angel. She is like a mosaic art piece that is crafted with rare gemstones that are rich with heritage and glamour. She has been living away from her family since college, and she is now working with a reputable company and trying to make the best out of her life. She is like no ordinary Arab lady, she is very open minded ( and by open minded i do not mean she wears revealing clothes, smoke cigarettes in public, or drink alcohol as some of you may think) she is open minded in a way that she accepts opposite or different people, ideas, or perceptions without any judgments.
'M' fell in love with an American dude who is 39 years old, she has always been attracted to older men since she is so mature and can't deal with men her age who are most of the times immature and irresponsible (that is my judgment not hers.. she just says I am more attracted to older men). They got to know each other through match.com since most of the singles there do not have the time to socialize as much as Arabs do.
They have been together for 7 months and they both loved each other dearly, he proposed to her a while back and his proposal was 'scripted' like we see in romantic movies. Obviously she did not introduce him to the Arab procedures of proposal where the mother and sisters of the groom first visit the bride's house and make mental notes of what the bride was wearing, what her mother seemed like, what area they live in, how fancy their furniture is, what did they offer them to drink or eat.. and the list goes on. If that visit turned positive, then they go for a second visit with the groom and his father and the father usually 'proposes' to the bride's father and they discuss some kind of a barter deal such as the amount of gold provided to the bride, how much money she is getting to buy a totally new wardrobe and lingerie, the amount of money she will be getting if they get a divorce.. and if they agreed on everything, then the father of the bride asks the father of the groom to give him some time to think, the thinking process actually means a background check!! he starts asking people around about the man who proposed and his family tree.. if the results were positive that means the 'proposal' has been successful.
So the poor American guy bought a nice diamond ring and thought now they can live happily ever after!!  'M' decided to make sure his proposal is sincere before she goes through the nearly impossible mission of convincing her family of an American man. She has caught multiple virtual cheating attempts throughout their relationship and each time it happened he used to defend himself and promise her not to do it again..
So here comes Joy to the rescue! Joy added him on her FB and the conversation was the following:

Joy:
How are you? your bulldog looks so cute.  (he had a photo with his bulldog on FB)
He:
I am well, how are you? My bulldogs name is Bambino, he is a super cute guy. Where do I know you from?
Joy:
You don't know me , it was suggested to me to Add you since we both had interest in some facebook application , so i added you and checked out your profile :). I'm half American, half Arab, i spend most of my time in US but i go back home to see some family and friends.
He:
nice!! It is interesting because I travel to the middle east often, and I usually date Arabic women. What a coincidence. Very nice to meet you.
Joy:
Thanks Nice to meet you too.
He:
where in the US do you reside?
Joy:
I live in *********
He:
My house is walking distance to the town very nice.You are back home now? If you have a cell # I could give you a call.

Joy:
you mentioned that you date arabic women, so i assumed you were single, im sorry i didnt mean anything by saying it would be nice to meet up with you. I just like to meet new people everyday and if there is any connection i take it from there. I hope to meet you soon and will email you as soon as i get back so we can talk over the phone and meet.
He:
yes i am single and i would love to meet you as soon as you get back.

That is all she needed to know.. bearing in mind that this conversation between Joy and him happened only few days after his breathtaking proposal! she ended it quietly and elegantly without mentioning anything that has to do with Joy.

I love you 'M' .. and screw you Poker Face!!!