10/16/09

Even the Beast cheated on his Beauty !

Joy's third victim is a gorgeous young lady with a beauty that makes the rest of the women look at themselves twice in the mirror... Non of her friends expected her dating an average guy since she is too good to be true, and they were right.. he surely isn't an average guy, he is an ugly looking guy that you either think she dated him because he has tons of cash on him (which unfortunately isn't the case) or that he cast a spell on her! Well it wasn't him who cast a spell it was Cupid who did it..
They met on her first day joining a well known telecom company, it was his first day too.. our victim which i will refer to as 'Beauty' has a hard to get character by nature, she knows she is very pretty and has a lovely personality which is why she walks with her head up all the time. He started trying to get closer to her, he asked to join her during their lunch breaks, compliment her on her new haircut, throw funny jokes here and there.. at first she didn't pay any attention to him, but the guy was so perssistant that his plan actually worked!
After one year of dating she found a better job so she decided to quit and join another company, so he decided to quit as well saying it will be impossible to keep working in the same company without her being around.. at that moment she thought she now owns the world, and she started loving him even more..
They stayed together for two years, during that time he intentionally used to make her lose her self confidence.. he used to criticize they way she dressed, her makeup, the way she laughed, even that fact that she speaks very good English claiming that Arabs should hold on to their language ( of course he wants to hold on to his language.. he says Beoble instead of people!). His frequent criticism has got to her, she started lacking self confidence.. she started taking him out shopping with her for him to pick her clothes so that she would wear stuff that he likes, she dyed her hair with the color he suggested, she went on diets, and the 'Beast' even convinced her that she needs a nose job!
Unfortunately many of us who fall in love start changing their looks and behaviours according to the endless list men have for what they want in a lady, and when you manage to complete the requirement list he will come up with new 'fixing' tasks for you so that you would always feel less about yourself. That gives men an upper hand.. a control over you and over your relationship to prove his 'manhood'. wake up ladies! if he likes blonde hair why the hell did he get into a relationship with you knowing that you have black hair! unless he is colorblind there is no excuse for him. So please.. i am begging all of you not to fall in this trap and hold on to your self confidence, if he doesn't like you the way you are then hell with him!
So back to 'Beauty'.. after her blind acceptance to all his 'requirements' and amusingly creative image he had in mind for his perfect match, he started acting different.. His phone line would be busy for hours at midnight, he doesn't SMS her back , or if he did, it would be after hours of getting her SMS.. He used to tell her he was on the phone with his cousin talking about important stuff, or he is discussing a family issue with his father, and the excuses were infinite.. She never had any doubt that what he is lying to her, she never imagined he would! Until one day she called him many times at night and he didn't pick up, she got really worried about him and decided to go to his house and check if his car is parked outside, so she stopped her car infront of his house to see him sitting outside in his garden with a lady and they looked like they were really enjoying their time. At first he didn't see her, so she called him another time on his cell phone and saw him looking at his phone and putting it back on the table and innocently continuing his interesting discussion with that lady. So 'Beauty' parked her car, went to his doorsteps and told him she needed to talk to him for a minute in her car.. he followed her to the car sat down and closed the door, and with a cold heartless voice he said "hey sweetheart, how are you? "  !!!  She was numb and she couldn't feel her legs, she also lost the ability of speech .. she couldn't say one single word. He got mad at her for being quiet and not answering his "how are you" question.. he asked what was wrong with her and got closer and wanted to hug her, she pushed him away and told him not to touch her or get near her. Then he told her that the girl who was sitting with him is his neighbour and they got to know each other lately, and he couldn't pick up her phone because he was in a middle of a conversation and felt it was 'rude' to pick up his phone while talking to that lady.
She got really pissed off and had her first argument with him that involved another woman, he managed to escape the blame and she gave in to his excuses and lies and decided to forget about what happened and to protect their love.
'Beauty' was invited to a small gathering her friend had, there were a bunch of girls gossiping and talking and one of them mentioned that she caught her bf cheating on her by letting one of her friends add him on FB. The idea crawled to her brain and got glued up covering all her beliefs of not to play games and the importance of communication and honesty in any relationship. She asked for Joy's help and of course she got what she asked for.
He previously asked 'Beauty' to delete all her male friends from her list because he said he cared for her and her reputation and didn't want guys to get access to her photos and information. She asked him to delete all his female friends in return but he said he is a man and that will not hurt his reputation and that they were all his colleagues from university or work, then he stressed on the point that she had to trust him and without trust their love will not survive.. of course she had to do everything for their 'love' to survive so she did what he asked her to do.
Now Joy added him to her list, he accepted the request on the spot and started flooding her with flirty compliments.. they started chatting and when 'Beauty' used to call him during his intimate chats, he would turn his phone to silent mode.. and after the chat is over he would call 'Beauty' and tell her he was at the gym or his phone was charging or he was taking a long rejuvenating bath. After couple of chat sessions with Joy, 'Beast' started to get more intimate and started to open 'hot' topics such as asking about her bra size, the color of her panties, how far did she go with a man  and so on.. Joy started playing along to see how far would he go and what secrets could he reveal about his intimate life. Joy asked him if he was single and of course the answer was YES, but he said he has multiple 'friends with benefits' to keep him going.. he started describing to her the last time he was with one of them and he told Joy he is looking forward to being next to her and show her his magical abilities in satisfying a woman.. he gave her his phone number and asked her to call him whenever she likes and he promised to be at her place after 15 minutes from her call.
'Beauty' had an emotional breakdown when she read the chat sessions, there was something inside of her that believed he wouldn't chat with Joy or even add her to his FB the first place.. She grabbed the phone and told him all about it and started lecturing him of the importance and value of decency and good manners (we usually turn into priests and preachers in such cases, get it ladies.. they will not get a word you say and non of what you said is going to make him admit his fault) He swore by all prophets that ever existed that he didn't do anything wrong and that he was only curious to know who that girl was (and of course the color of her panties!) then he told 'Beauty' that he is a man and again nothing will hurt his reputation (I will make sure to not only hurt his reputation, but destroy it) and that what happened is not considered cheating or betrayal and that the love he has for 'Beauty' is in his heart ( then I am sure he has love in each organ in his body each for a different woman).
'Beauty' ended her relationship with the 'Beast' and tried her best to recover the pain he caused her.. He tried calling her many times and sent her so many SMS messages but she never read them nor replied. One day she got shocked when she knew he called her at home and told her mother he wanted to propose and get married to her, but the bitterness he caused her made her tell her mother that she doesn't want anything to do with that man... The great Chris Rock mentioned in one of his stand ups that men use the 'I want to spend the rest of my life with you' card when they really really really mess up.. so if your man tells you he wants to marry you all of a sudden make sure he did something nasty!  and i believe he is right..
Men think that any woman would be hypnotized when he say he wants to spend the rest of his life with her, so he thinks she will totally forget about him cheating on her, hitting her, abusing her, spending her money..etc
Well sorry to tell you guys, most women nowadays rather die single than to be with your sorry asses! so please enough with the ' i want to marry you '  trick .. WON'T WORK

So 'Beauty' darling.. unless 'Prince Charming' showed up in your life do not get into a relationship.. and please please please dye your hair black, just the way it was and let the 'Beast Pervert' look for the blondy he always fantasized about..

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

LOVE TRUELY IS BLIND BUT U SEE THATS WHY THEY SAY A FEMALE THINKS WITH HER HEART AND MALES THINK WITH YOU KNOW WHAT......

SO LADIES COMING FROM A MALE WHY DNT YOU TRY USING THAT BRAIN NEXT TIME BUT U CANT BECOZ YOUR HEART WILL ALWAYS OVER POWER THAT IS A FEMALES WEAKNESS BUT HER WEAPON IS TEARS IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

Anonymous said...

Well written !!
What I learnt from your story…don’t add a sexy, liberal, hot lady on your fb ,unless you are as handsome as Richard Gear, … most probably its someone trying to get you down…at least wants to make fun of you ..if more serious, may ruin your life !!
For me.. nothing new.. I am a man and know how men are very well
We are just like that… you don’t have to accept it…but for sure you will have to live with it