'Scratch and Win' Part 1

You are on your feet again and ready for a new relationship to pop up in your life.. We managed to get you out of your previous one alive, and now its time for you to shield yourself for the coming new love. I will give you some tips that will allow you to scratch your way to winning your new man's heart.

First tip is to remember you should always look pretty!!!  If your Diesel jeans is getting stuck at your knees and you can't pull it up, or if you have to sleep on your back for you to zip it, that means you better start on a diet NOW. After you lose some weight, make sure to go to the gym and stretch up your body. Your body is two third of your whole look which makes it get hell lot of points. Don't over do it though, skinny is ugly!

The other one third remaining which is your face and hair is also very important, take care of your skin and keep your hair looking neat. Do not over use makeup or else you would look like a freaky clown.
Your looks make the first impression, and guys are very visual.. when he first see you he will not get impressed by how well educated you are or the great sense of humor you have got.

Looking pretty is not something you do just for him, it will infuse your self confidence which will reflect on how you behave as well. There is nothing worse than a woman with low self esteem.. so make sure you stand up straight and keep your head up...

Its nice to be fashionable, but some fashion items are only for you to watch on Fashion TV.. always pick the fashion items that best suit your personality and avoid wearing very revealing clothes ( if you show a lot of skin you will be labeled as 'the hottie or the ****', and he will add you to his 'Must Do' list instead of the 'Must Know' one). The secret here is balance.. If you wear a short skirt, wear a covered top and if you wear a revealing top wear it with jeans or regular pants. Make sure to dress nicely and look your best all the time even if you go to the grocery store.. you never know where or when you are going to meet him!!

The second tip you need to know is to walk away from the guy you really like. Have you ever wondered why does the guy you know from work keep calling you when you do not answer most of times? and why does he keep texting you and remembering your birthday and getting you gifts while you never showed him face? Well here we go, it is because you never showed any interest in him and you were nice enough to not say it to his face.. Guys love challenge, the harder it gets the better he feels when he finally wins your heart, and when he feels better about it he will make sure not to let you go so fast. So ladies, listen to your mom when she tells you playing hard to get is the key to a successful relationship.

Third tip is that he should never take you forgranted after you start dating. Do not cling to him so much and show him he is your air and water, the moment you do that he will stop exerting effort to keep you since he knows you cannot live without him! Have a life of your own even when you are together.. go out with your friends, persue your dreams, and have your 'Me' time. Make sure he knows that he is a priority in your life but there lies other priorities as well, and never ever let him the one who decides the fate of your relationship or your life. Never ask him when are we getting married, this will empower him to feel that it is totally up to him and according to his own time, and whenever he is ready he expects you to be there with a veil on your head waiting for his majesty.

Start learning those three and practice them, and  tomorrow i will be adding more winning tips hoping to prevent you from falling again.